How to get a girlfriend
Do you ask yourself “Why can’t I get a girlfriend?” Are you trying to get over an ex-girlfriend with the new affair? Do you simply feel lonely? This article will give you some advice on how to get girlfriends no matter what the reason and the purpose of your search are.
Not so long ago scientists discovered that the main criterion in the search of your soul mate is the smell of the skin. It’s true, and we do not differ from animals in this respect. People choose their partners by smell. And if their tastes coincide a feeling is born. Of course, you may object and you will be right, because in order to smell you, a girl needs to know you first. Getting a girlfriend always starts with getting acquainted.
Now, some tips on getting a girlfriend. In order to draw attention of the object of your adoration, first of all you have to be tidy. And do not tell me that women pay attention to the cost of your suit before noticing if there are any spots on it. After all, you don’t need to get a girlfriend who won’t care about you, do you? So pay attention to what you look like. Shiningly clean shoes, properly tied tie, and a clean handkerchief, clean hair and trimmed nails are a must. Such a man will get a smile from any girl, and it will not be hard for him to get a new girlfriend.
Learn to estimate the situation. Try to feel the mood of the person you are trying to get acquainted with. Be confident. If the previous point (about the appearance) is perfectly attended, you can be sure that there is nothing you can be reproached for. Move on, show your intelligence and your conversational skills. If you are sitting in a café and are going to “seduce” a girl sitting alone at the next table, try to order something for her through the waiter, passing her a small note with an interesting content like “You are there, and I am here. It’s not right. ;-) (A funny smile at the end is mandatory). Attention – never order alcohol. Let it be a cup of mocha or an original dessert. If the girl is well-educated and not unhappy, she will certainly thank you, at least with a smile. If not, don’t even think about demonstrating your dissatisfaction and leaving. Life is full of unpredictable moments. Who knows, maybe she has just parted with her boyfriend and is disappointed with the whole male sex. Just try to look elsewhere.
If the scenario is developing successfully and the girl invited you to join her at her table, you are starting a conversation. Now you have to apply even more efforts, because now your appearance plays a secondary role. Don’t over intellectualize! Remember, everything is good in moderation. Talks about the principles of work of a jet engine will probably impress a researcher who is writing a thesis on this subject, but there are very few chances that you will meet one.
Compliments are a whole science and a true art. And it’s also important not to overdo with them. Do not concentrate on any particular part of the body during the first date. You can compliment an interesting, charming, fresh like the sea (choose your variant) scent of her perfume, a bright and enchanting look, a good suit or a dress… There are lots of variants. And remember, girls like humor, not the blunt one, but kind and sincere, the one which is said to prolong your life.
So what is the best way to get a girlfriend? There are various variants of getting acquainted with girls. For example, if you go jogging in the morning, you always have a chance to meet another runner on your way and to ask her the way, pretending that you’re using this route for the first time.
Plus – you will be sure in that the girl leads a healthy lifestyle.
Minus – won’t work in 100% of cases, since you might seem to be a maniac.
Supermarket – come up to a girl and ask her advice on choosing this or that thing. For example, standing at the fridge with frozen vegetables “Excuse me, can you tip me on which vegetables to take for a pizza?”
Plus – if one girl refuses to talk, you can turn to another one. This is the place where people are always numerous.
Minus – no guarantees that in a couple of minutes her boyfriend (variants – husband, friend) or her child (variants – two, three, five children) will not join her.
Underground, public transport – ask a girl about how to get to a particular place or simply begin a conversation with questions like “Are you going far?” continuing with a logical “To work?” or “To classes? Do you study?”
Plus – a normal girl will most probably agree to explain the way to you.
Minus – no guarantee that the girl will want to communicate, being shy to speak in public.
A relatively new method of getting acquainted – via text messages: you write a short message, send it to a random number and… if you a lucky, you will have a conversation.
Plus – she doesn’t see your blushing face you tend to have meeting girls.
Minus – you don’t see her face either, and might not like it when and if you finally see it. Also, she may easily turn out to be too old, too young or to live in another city hundreds of miles from yours.
And one more thing – get girlfriends flowers. In addition to “loving with ears”, remember that they also love with their eyes. And by the way, giving flowers to an attractive girl in the street is one of the most efficient methods of getting a girlfriend. If you know anything about minuses, let me know.