How to impress girls
How to get a girlfriend? First of all, you need to attract her attention and to impress her so that she gets interested in you. Unfortunately, a muscled body, an expensive car and some money in a bank account are not always enough for attracting girls. You need to know how to impress a girl, how to intrigue her and how to ask a girl out without risking to be rejected.
It’s evident that girls adore getting presents, and you will not manage to avoid giving them if you want to impress a girl. But please, don’t be banal and predictable: modern girls perceive a bouquet of flowers and a dinner in a restaurant as an indispensable attribute of the first date. So you need to add something more to it.
So how to impress girls at the first date? How to impress a girl at school, at college, at work? How to impress a girl you have been going out with for several years already? No matter how long you know a girl, there is one thing which you should remember: the main thing about a present is not its value, but its extravagance. This was proven by the researches from London.
Scientists selected several methods of attracting girls – including presents – and defined which of them prove to be statistically more successful in leading to the set goals, that is to the desire of the girl to build relationships or to have sex.
They considered three types of gifts: a cute knickknack, a posh present (like jewelry) or an object which is unusual, strange, extravagant (its price doesn’t matter).
Sure, the knickknack was put aside at once – you will not manage to get anyone into bed with a cheap fob. Valuable presents like diamonds or cars which are especially adored by ladies of the high society, may take you closer to intimacy, but this is not the best way to attract a girl. Girls are often materialistic nowadays, and you might need to buy her many more things before she agrees to anything. So you’d better think about how to get a girl to like you without spending huge amounts of money on a short-term affair.
Even wealthiest and pickiest girls can be “got” by romance and extraordinary presents. An acquaintance of mine, an artist, painted a portrait of the girl he liked while he didn’t even know her. He just watched her at lectures and made some sketches. When he brought the portrait painted in oil to that girl, she simply couldn’t resist.
Another friend of mine didn’t give anything to the girl, he just said that all the stylish clothes he wears, including the backpack, were made by him and promised to sew a fashionable handbag for her. Everything is up to your fantasy and your skills. If you can sing, sing for her, if you can dance well – dance, if you can mold from clay – make her a vase.
Specialists are sure that after such a sign of attention the girl will believe that you are an unusual, creative and caring man. According to the latest psychological researches, expensive gifts do not show seriousness of a man’s intentions, but rather his confidence in that everything can be bought. Girls often reject too valuable presents in order not to feel obliged. On the other hand, the more energy, forces, imagination and thought were put into the choice or the creation of a present, the more serious a man is thought to be towards the girl.
The best unordinary presents will be common experiences of some exciting and fascinating adventures. Vivid and dear memories will definitely remain in her head for a long time. Girls who dream about romance and fairy-tale love can be conquered by suggesting a walk in a horse-drawn carriage or a trip on a boat. You can bring an unusual souvenir from an exotic country. You can go to a concert of jazz music together or you can bake a cake for her. Everything depends on your fantasy, and you will not have any problems if you are a creative person, and even if you are not, try to use your imagination and you will succeed.
Let’s imagine that the purpose of your gift was asking her out on a date, you managed to impress her with a gift and she agreed to go on a date with you. Any date is based on communication, so you will have to talk to her. How to talk to girls? Calmly, confidently, with a smile on your face, not allowing awkward pauses, not using dirty language, looking into her eyes and asking questions; watching her reactions, listening to her answers and trying to make her believe that you are really interested in her. Subjects of discussion might vary. There was a story about a guy who was very shy and couldn’t get acquainted with a girl because the only sphere he was passionate about was nuclear physics. And what do you think? Once he dared come up to a girl and described how the whole world would collapse if the small electrons moving around the nucleus of the atom suddenly fell onto it so passionately, that the girl was really impressed, gave him her number and later became his girlfriend. The sense of this story is: the main thing is not what you say, but how you say it.
The best ending of a date is a kiss. How to kiss a girl? How to determine if she’s ready for it? Try to touch her hair or her face. Smell her hair, touch her earrings, compliment the softness of her skin – find a good pretext. If she doesn’t mind and smiles, she will not mind you kissing her, either. Make it light first. You will know if she wants more.